Breakdown…

 

You are more introverted than extroverted.   This is way true. Underneath, I am very shy.  I make huge efforts to be outgoing appearing.  It is really hard sometimes when I just want to hide.

 

You are more intuitive than observant, you are more thinking based than feeling based, and you prefer to go with the flow rather than have a routine. I don’t know on this one.  I am very fragile and get my feelings hurt easily with some things.  I usually don’t let me feelings get in the way of what I am doing though and I don’t do that on purpose.  It is just the way I do things.  Oh, I can’t stand regiment.  I don’t like having a plan that is set in stone.  I need that random act to keep sane.

 

The single word to describe your type is the Architect, which belongs to the larger group of rationals.  I guess…LOL 

 

You wish to sculpt the world around you. Others often find you arrogant, yet you have no desire to direct others, only to inform them.  I don’t know about sculping the world, but people do find me arrogant sometimes and that hurts my feelings.  I don’t want to direct others that is very true.  Being the boss is not me at all.  I don’t like being bossed either.  I like just doing things on my own.  I probably do try to inform people too much.  I should work on that.

 

You must know the structure of things, and have a voracious appetite for knowledge.  I love learning this is true.  I like knowing the behind the scenes structure of things.  This survey for example….I have been reading now for over an hour on how they come to these conclusions.  I am a nut.  I do this with all sorts of things.  I do it so much that sometimes I annoy myself.

 

You are very rational in everything you do, and probably consider yourself smarter than most.  I hate to admit it, but I do consider myself smarter than a lot of people.  Not most though I don’t think.  I don’t consider myself better than people that are dumber than me though.  I consider people equal pretty much and we all have attributes that make us great and make us us.  I really think of myself as less than a lot of people, but I think this is the shyness in me more than anything.

 

As a romantic partner, you can be playful with great energy to get things started, but not quite as good on follow through.  What can I say??

 

You may have a tendency to hurt the more emotional types unintentionally by not sharing your own reactions and feelings as you can get swept up in your own ideas and projects.  I probably do this.  I am too straight forward with people who are hurting or have crazy emotions.  I would never hurt someone intentionally, but I do find that my not showing my emotions in certain situations makes other people think that I don’t have emotions.  Sometimes when I do show emotions I really surprise people.

 

You want to be appreciated for your ability to respond quickly and to fix problems creatively.  I guess if I have to be appreciated for something this would be it.  I mostly am horrible at taking compliments.  I am more likely to cry with a compliment than if you screamed in my face or hit me.  I just get all mooshy inside when people do nice things unexpected. 

 

 You need plenty of time to yourself – therefore your partner must respect your need for independence and originality.  This is for sure.  I definitely need my room.  I need to do my own thing and with permission.  I can’t be strapped down at all.